My story

Hello, I’m Sam!

Seven years ago my then husband came home from a work trip and told me he was leaving me. To say it was a shock was an understatement. I had NO idea it was coming. 

Of course he had been thinking about this decision for a while so he had prepared himself mentally. I had no time to prepare myself. There hadn’t even been a hint that this might happen.

I coudn’t eat, sleep or focus. And I had to be there for our then 6-year old daughter and go into work everyday. They say that divorce is one of the hardest things you can ever go through and they are not wrong. 

It took me several years to get back on my feet and rebuild my self-esteem. I was a ball of anger for a long long time. I felt like a failure, that it was my fault, that I was a terrible wife.

Now I can see that my husband leaving me was nothing to do with me and everything to do with him. I let go of the anger and the humiliation and healed myself by working on my mindset. 

Changing my mindset transformed my life. I am happy, positive and proud of who I am and what I have accomplished. I own my divorce story and live my life free of the anger and bitterness that consumed me. 

It is now my privilege to coach women who have experienced their own divorce (or break-up) and help them see how amazing they are. 

Divorce doesn’t define you. Unless you let it x